A study of gratitude

Above is a picture that my seven year old daughter painted of me.  I keep it at my desk to remind me of the good things in my life.  I work at being a glass half full person.  I am a small business owner.  I do own an art gallery in a challenging market, during a very challenging economy.  I have plenty of opportunities for growth that I could talk about, but not today.  Today is a study in gratitude.  I have a sign in my office that hangs on a wall just beside the door.  It reads “This is the best month ever”.  It has hung there for about two years now.  I have friends who kid me about the sign, but in reality This IS the best month ever.  Let me tell you why.

I am grateful to have a happy, healthy, and beautiful daughter who can come hang out at work with me.  I am grateful (and somewhat amazed) that in second grade she knows who Picasso is, and allows herself to be inspired by his work.  I am grateful to have the opportunity to send her to a public school that celebrates the arts.  I am grateful to go to a school assembly and hear an amazing drumming troupe.  I am grateful to walk through the halls and see rich artwork done by incredible children.

I am grateful to have a step-son in high school who still thinks art is cool.  I am grateful that he brags to his friends that his parents own an art gallery instead of hiding it.  I am grateful that he is handsome, smart, and incredibly sure of himself.  I love watching him talk to people at the openings.  He wears a name tag that says “Clayton Stevens, Owner”.  I am grateful that at 14 he has a sense of ownership in the gallery.

I am grateful to walk in a space every morning that is beautiful and fills my soul.  The gallery resides in the old Hays Hardware building.  It has white washed brick walls, an old elevator shaft, and a beautiful glass transom in the front of the building.  It is warm and inviting.  It provides the perfect backdrop for art.  It is easy, day in and day out, to take your environment for granted.  Sometimes when I am frustrated or discouraged I go sit on a bench in the middle of the gallery and breath in the beauty that surrounds me.

I am grateful to live in a community that values art enough to support it.  I am grateful to live in a city that has a percent for art program.  I am grateful to live in a city that has great public art.  I remember as a child growing up in Columbia, passing the Flying French Fries or “La Colomba” as the sculpture is actually titled.  I am grateful to live in a community that I am proud to tell people about.  In addition to all the visual arts venues, we also have a great live music scene, independent film, and theater.  For a town of this size we are very fortunate to have the arts community that we have.  I, for one, am grateful for that.

I am grateful for the amazing customers that we have.  I am grateful for the support and encouragement that each of them provide.  I am grateful for the people who know when I am hanging a new show and make a point to one of the first to see it.  I am grateful for the people who make art a priority in their lives.  I am grateful for the people who have my postcard hanging on their fridge.  I am honored to be a part of your lives.

I am grateful for the incredible artists who trust me with their work.  I am grateful to be surrounded by creativity.  I am grateful to know many of the galleries artists on a deeply personal level.  I am privileged to be able to experience the creation of art first hand.  I am proud of the part I play in bringing said art to the community.

I am grateful to have two wonderful employees who work for peanuts, because they love PS:Gallery.  Joel whom has been with me from the beginning, is invaluable (read the previous post about Joel if you want to know how much I truly appreciate him).  Sarah, who started as an intern soon after we opened is now my gallery assistant.  I am grateful that they know that in many ways the gallery is as much theirs as it is mine.  I am grateful to have the ability to leave and not worry about what might happen.  I am grateful that often my desk is cleaner after they have worked than after I have worked.

I am grateful to all of the people whom I have worked for and worked with that have helped prepare me for this.  I don’t have a degree in business or in art for that matter.  Somehow along the way, I have obtained the skill sets I needed to run a business.  I have had some pretty incredible mentors.  I will always be grateful for them.

Mostly, I am grateful for my husband.  I am grateful that every day he puts on a suit and tie and goes to work so I am able to run the gallery that he always dreamed of opening.  I am grateful that he has complete faith in my ability to run the gallery that bears our names.   I am grateful that he is as crazy as I am and rarely questions what we are doing.  I am grateful that even though my messy office drives him (and many others) crazy, he doesn’t say anything most of the time.

Thanks to all of you who allow me to do the work I love.  I am grateful.


2 Responses to “A study of gratitude”

  1. 1 Dad
    November 28, 2009 at 11:57 pm

    I am grateful for such a smart, good natured, artistic and beautiful daughter. Way to go Bunny Girl!

  2. February 3, 2010 at 3:03 pm

    Well said! Life is good. Sometimes we forget how good until we stop and assess all that we have to be grateful for. Keep thinking grateful thoughts.

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